I curse the day he was born!!

3 months ago, J happily announced her wedding to us. We were so glad for her that she had finally found her soul mate, K, at her 30's. K was indeed a good catch, holding a high post in an offshore bank and earning approx. S$30K per month. He was charismatic and romantic. Guess how much was the proposal ring? S$30K!!! To good to be true?? Yes, it is!!

2 weeks ago, J received a call from a lady who claimed she was K's 16-year girlfriend. We name her S here. S had been staying with K all these while, but in separate room in his apartment. She revealed that K had been playful during their 16 years relationship. K betrayed her many times and the last time she could remember was K with her best friend. Over the years, K had always had cold feet for marriage and that was why they were not married. Until 3 months ago when she found the certificate of J's diamond ring in K's room, she finally realized that K was going to marry someone else!

J was stunned when she heard from S. She had thought that she was so lucky to meet K in her life. A wonderful man that she really really loved a lot. Even though K had not introduced her to his parents, she still accepted his proposal after being together for 2 years. In this new era, we might not need to seek permission from our parents for marriage, but at least we should inform them and introduce our partner to them, right? It's a manner of respect. But, K didn't. J thought it was because he was too busy with his work schedule and hence delayed again and again. Never she could expect that it was due to the existence of S!

He explained that he had no courage to tell his parents that he was not going to marry S whom they always thought was their future daughter-in-law. So, he had been 'secretly' dating J for the past 2 years yet J didn't notice that at all? They had been to public places together. J even stayed overnight at his place sometimes while S was living at next door? Seriously, I can't believe a man who is so successful in his career can be so fucked up in personal life! He not only messed up his own but another 2 ladies' lives! Scumbag!

The latest update is S has moved out from K's apartment, not totally as she still leaves some of her stuffs there. K promises to bring J to meet his parents tomorrow morning (after dragging again and again) and hope that they can still proceed the wedding as planned. J is half-hearted now and doesn't know if she can trust him again.

I realize I didn't tell you guys that the wedding is scheduled in mid Sept. Do you think it will still be in time?? Sigh...the whole episode reminds me of 'Sex and the city'. K is a real life version of Mr. Big! Honestly speaking, I won't be surprised that he might be the run-away groom on the wedding day if they ever proceed with the wedding...