Selfless love

When you are planning for a future, do you plan your loved ones in? Or, you just care about who you will be, what you will have and where you will live? Have you ever considered what your loved ones want and need from you? If you only think about yourself, then you might want to re-think.

One of the selfless love I know is a malaysian husband willing to migrate to Australia for the sake of his indonesian wife. She fell in love with him when they were studying in university in his country. After graduation, she decided to stay on for him, under social visit pass. Few years later, they got married. However, she was unable to obtain permanent resident status after many trials. After much consideration, he then decided to migrate to Australia to start afresh with her. They chose Australia because her siblings were there, quoting him 'so that if I am gone before her, she won't be alone'...

Switch off

I have been busy this whole week...busy with work. I didn't get to meet my younger sisters who are sleeping in the next door under one roof. I reached home midnight almost everyday this week. I am feeling tired now...my back is aching because I have been sitting in front of my work desk the whole day. Darling always says I can't go on with my life this way. He wishes that I can be less workaholic. Well, I understand I am compensating my health for working this hard. As much as I wanna slow down too, I don't know how to!! Someone ever said this to me 'you don't know how to switch off, that's why you are tired.'. How I wish I could switch off!

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